Ok, so unless there’s something not so obvious going on, most of us use this site to help us release a little (or a lot) of tension.  But hey, just like everything else, we can sometime become bored with our own ‘personal’ sex life, otherwise known as masturbation.   While we keep plenty of fresh and new content on here, which always gives you something to bring it home with, there’s still a variety of ways to spice up your your solo sex life, because even if you have a partner, you still need that alone time once in a while!

First, try using the opposite hand. That’s right, if you’re a lefty, grab it with the right.  It will feel different and can even feel like you’re getting a hand job from a stranger, which could lead to a better orgasm.   You might also want to try flipping your hand over, upside down just as if someone else was doing it for you!

The next one we call ‘American Pie’, after the movie.  Now while we wouldn’t suggest sticking your cock inside of a pie that was baked at 350 degrees (hopefully for obvious reasons) try with a fruit.  But try a FleshJack.  If you’re on a budget, try using a banana peel, slightly, *repeat slightly* (so you don’t burn yourself) heated in the microwave, like maybe 10 seconds.  Then coat the inside of the peel with a thin layer of Vaseline.   Put it over your cock like you’re un-peeling your banana and stroke away.  You can also use fruit and veggies by cutting an opening the size of your cock.  Make sure you don’t try this one on the carpet!

If you’re a bit more reserved, try pillows.  Fold a pillow in half. Lay down on top and feed your cock into the crack between the pillows and push away.  This simulates more of in the bed missionary style sex.  Just make sure you don’t wake up the next morning with the pillow stuck to your face!

Don’t forget your boys!  That’s right, most of us have two balls, of course there were those two guys I new in college.  One had one, the other had three…they made great conversation pieces together at parties.  But back to the point.  Your ball sack is sensitive to, so try tickling it with feathers, tugging on it a little or just mess around with them as you masturbate. Your balls are part of the pleasure process too.  Don’t leave them out!  Of course that leads into nipple play.  Just do what you want to with that one!

Change positions.  Just like you would with a wild fuck buddy in bed, try different positions.  For example, if you usually lay down while bomp the bologna, then try doing it standing up and vice versa.  Try it in a chair, on your hands and knees, etc.  Again, the goal is to mix it up a bit.

There’s always something exhilarating about the great outdoors, which is our next suggestion.  Now with the modern technology of wireless, head out into your backyard at night, or day for that matter.  Find a spot outside where you can plant your seed!  This one can be a lot of fun…just use caution, you don’t want a cop finding you doing this one…unless he’s into that sort of thing and decides to join you!

Next, hire an assistant.  Let’s face it, sometimes your hand just doesn’t do the trick.  There’s a great many toys out there on the market, think about interviewing one for the position.  Many times anal stimulation during masturbation can increase your climax, so even if you’re intent on only being a top, give this one a try. A great one to start with are those little vibrating bullets.  Play around and see how it feels against your anus, balls and penis.  Let’s face it, just about anything vibrating feels good down there!

Find a friend.  Look, just because you get naked with a guy, doesn’t mean you have to fuck and suck each other.  Beware, if you have a BF, you’re gonna wanna be careful with this one and make sure you have great self control.  Make up your ground rules right from the get go.  No touching, just side by side masturbation.  It can be really hot to watch a great porn with a friend and both pleasure yourselves.  What a great bonding experience without the actual “bonding” if you catch our drift!

One last suggestion, and yes we saved the hardest for last, instead of stroking it to orgasm every time, try to bring yourself as close to orgasm as possible without busting your but, then stop.  Rinse and repeat several times.  This process is known as edging.  Doing this several times prior to release will amazingly increase your orgasm and you’ll shoot bigger loads further!

So yes, while watching porn is hot, don’t let it cut down on your own creativity. Learn to multi-task and try mixing it up while you’re watching your favorite flick!  Keep it alive!

• Use this video of Michael Ken from BelAmi to help you get started!